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Erica Motter's avatar

I am one of those people who has severely limited my use of social media nowadays (most days I don’t use it) as a result of this current setup. I really wish there was an option on instagram to return to a version that only showed me content from people I followed on my feed. It used to be this way—the feed was just content from people I followed, and then there was a separate “explore” tab in case I CHOSE to see what else was going on out there.

The fact that this choice has been taken away, and the fact that I know I am being manipulated every time I use social media, has made it too icky for me to use. I know you tend to advocate for staying on social media instead of leaving it, but I just feel so much better emotionally and physically when I don’t use it.

I am sad to miss out on some things, but I really can’t find a healthy way to engage with something that is designed to be so addictive and emotionally evocative. It’s also discouraging to feel like I need to adapt my own way of communicating to the trends of the algorithm in order to be seen. Doesn’t seem worth the loss of integrity. I wish there was a better option.

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William of Hammock's avatar

I also think of it as an "inattention economy." So many products are now escapist in nature, with "escape from" and "escape to" becoming part of the same value proposition. Perhaps "engagement" can be both at once, but it may never solve whatever problems you are "disengaging" from, leaving you in the cycle.

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